Transit Neptune Opposite Ascendant: Ideals and Illusions in Love

Transit Neptune opposite Ascendant means Neptune is conjoining the Descendant (DC), so its effect is felt most in close relationships, marriage and partnerships. When Neptune stands directly opposite the Ascendant, the 1st house theme of how a person defines themselves is tested through the person facing them: "Who am I, who are you, and where is the boundary?"

How does transit Neptune opposite Ascendant affect relationships?

During this period someone may fall in love and see the other person as bigger and more ideal than they are. In an existing relationship, a partner may become harder to read, more distant or in need of care, and the person may slip into the role of rescuer or the one who sacrifices. In business partnerships, unclear roles and expectations can lead to misunderstandings. The same aspect can also herald a deep bond with a spiritual companion, a therapist or a creative partner.

Three passes over the Descendant

The aspect lasts one to two years and three passes are common. Attraction or confusion builds as it approaches, the relationship is at its most uncertain or most enchanted at the exact passes, and as it separates the person starts to see the other more realistically. Neptune then moves through the 7th house for years; transit Neptune in the 7th house describes that long period.

Seeing with love, agreeing with clarity

Not making big partnership decisions in a single emotional moment, putting agreements in writing and getting to know the other person over time make a good compass now. Compassion is the gift of this transit; showing compassion without losing oneself is its lesson.